I believe that we as
humans had experience one hardship or the other in life. There is never a
person that
will come out boldly to tell me that he/she never encounter
disappointment or depression in life. Even if you haven’t experience any, one
day, one time, you may still experience it. Life can never be too honey. They must
be a time of temptation, disappointment or depression but what matters a lot is
the Victory time, that happy moment,
whether you are able to conquer all those hardships. The question that lie now
is “how can you gain your victory? How can
you overcome all those trial time? How can you smile again? It’s by focusing on
the positive part of life”.
What
do I mean by positive part of life?
Positive part of life are
those good time or good memory that you have had in life. It is those thing
that can make you feel complete and help you gain your victory. They are things
that can help you to excel.
Many people have lose
hope because they thought that it is too late for them to come back to positive
part of life, they thought that they will never be a time of victory. Coming back
to positive part of life depends on the effort you put or the zeal that you
have. So many tips and articles has being written on how one can raise again
and move to positive part of life. Countless seminar or empowerment program has
been organized to make people know that there is still hope for them in this
life.
Focusing on the positive
part of life those not only help you to gain your victory but it also have some
health benefits. Yes, you may be wondering how it relates to health but don’t you
know that all those time of hardship can make one to think too much thereby
causing High Blood Pressure (H.B.P) to
them. It can reduce someone’s life span, it can also cause severe headache and heart
attack. I believe that you have seen how hardship can affect our life. Focusing
all the positive part of life can help you overcome all those health
challenges. It can also bring happiness and many other positive things.
There are many ways and
tips that can help one to focus more on the positive part of life but in
article, I will be discussing out only four of them.
4
Tips That Can Help You Focus More On The Positive Part Of Life
1. Focus more on the present and not the past
This particular point
is very important and that is why I decide to treat it first.
Positive part of life
needs you to focus more on the present, the future and never the past. One
thing that pull us down as force of gravity is that we always focus more on the
past rather than the present.
Whenever you recall the
past especially your failure, it tend to dislodge you from your almost achieved
victory.
Present is always the best, therefore focus more on it.
2.
Record your success and not your failure
This is common among us
all. We tend to recall our failure more than our success. We forgot that we
were once successful. Recording or recalling your failure is like adding salt
to an injury (I guess you know how it feel when salt is been added to an
injury; it’s extremely painful).
In other for us to
continue to excel in life, we need to stop recording our failure but record our
success. This will be of great help because your success records will serve as
a reference to you whenever you encounter disappointment.
3.
Be yourself
Being yourself I mean
here is that you should be the one that control all your life activities, be
the person that makes your life decisions, stand by your words, know when to
work and when to rest. Know when to have time for yourself. When you allow
other person to make a decision for you, it may lead to hardship or negative
things later.
So therefore, be
yourself and stay focus.
4.
Be curious (I.e. be inquisitive)
Being curious is another
great way of victory and success in life. Be eager to learn something and don’t
claim that you know what you know that you don’t know (please read this particular
line again for better understanding). Little wonder why great philosopher Socrates once said that “I know that am intelligent because I know
that I know nothing”
Don’t claim Mr. Know All. Always associate with
people that are higher than you.
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