Most people believes that when they get married that it will be eternity. However, the reality in today's world is that countless marriages fail and result in divorce. Other married couples may fall out of love and grow to dislike one another more than they care to admit. But for a sort of reasons (kids, money, religious beliefs etc...), they remain husband and wife in theory predominantly.
These types of marriages can unavoidably lead one or both spouses to seek the comfort of another adult and in due course cheat on one another. Another situation that may lead a married person to be adulterous is an unexpected meeting with someone who sweeps them off their feet.
Notwithstanding their attempts to avoid this relationship from becoming an extramarital affair, they may find their emotional state too powerful to deny and thus give into their desires to be with this new person. The saying "Life is too short..." comes to mind as defense for this new love or lust.
Yet other married people may knowingly choose to cheat on their spouses. If you fall into that type, you possibly have the art of not getting caught mastered already.
Irrespective of what leads a spouse to break their wedding vows, here are some of the best ways to get away with an affair.
10 Ways To Have An Affair And Not Get Caught
1. Never bring your lover to your home.
2. Never go to your lover's home (unless they are completely single and free from the ties of marriage and/or a serious relationship.) If they get caught by their significant other, chances are your spouse will also find out.
3. Never call your new friend from your home phone and/or your cell phone (if your partner has access to your phone record.)
4. Never give your new friend your home phone number.
5. Keep a low profile when you are out with your lover. You would be surprised how many people know you and/or your spouse, who unbeknownst to you may see you lavishing inappropriate attention on your new buddy in public.
6. Do your best to meet with your lover out of town - someplace far enough away from home that you do not know people and people do not know you.
7. Try to set up a systematic schedule of "dates" with your lover. If your partner expects you to be out of town for business overnight every Wednesday, he/she will not suspect anything when you maintain this schedule and include your new friend in your overnight stays.
8. Do not become too certain in your ability to deceive your spouse. If you become too sure of yourself, you will get sentimental and you may get caught.
9. Do not tell everyone you know about your dishonest dates. You should trust very few, if any, friends with your secret.
10. Do not make promises you cannot keep. Nothing will swift your lover to reveal your affair to your spouse quicker than your disappointment to fulfill some insincere commitment to end your marriage for him or her.
Disclaimer: This article was not written to support/promote cheating spouse. So always Love and be faithful to your spouse.
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