5 Things That You Must Consider Before Proposing To Her

5 Things That You Must Consider Before Proposing To Her

Many guys nowadays rush into marriage without considering some basic facts that they need to consider before proposing to that his sweet heart.

No wonder some marriage collapse easily this century, it does not last long anymore. News of divorce is

everywhere, some with tangible reason while others with little or no reasons; all because the husband did not have patient or the knowledge to consider some little facts before proposing to his partner.

I know that both of you are in love already but being in love is not enough reason for you to propose to her. Yes, you heard me right, being in love is not enough reason for you to propose to her because change is inevitable. Things can change anytime and any day. That love can die anytime or any moment but what will keep the marriage alife is the foundation you laid at first before proposing to her.

Here, I will point out 5 most important facts that you need to consider before proposing to that your Lover.

5 Most Important Facts To Consider Before Proposing To Her

1. Future 

I know that both of you trusted each other but do you trust her future? You have to ask yourself this question? Is she ready to settle down? Is she going to be the type that like staying at home instead of helping you to hustle for the family wellbeing? What type of work is she good at? So when you asking yourself this questions, you will now choose whether you need a house wife or a wife that will support your effort in terms of providing for some certain thing.

2. Family

The reason why I will to talk about considering of family is because many marriage has failed today due to that they neglected to consider the family. What I mean by considering the family is that you have to seek for family support. Your marriage will be very successful if your family member support you. Don't mind those people that will tell you that two of you can live without your family support. What if something happen tomorrow? Nobody knows tomorrow? So, let say if your family give you a tangible reasons why you should not marry that particular girl, you have to weigh the reasons and think deep about it. Your family can only help you care for your children when you adhere to their advice. Seek for both parents support and blessings, it is very important in successful marriage.

3. AGE

It amuse me whenever I heard some people saying that age doesn't count in love. Bro, forget about that oooh!! Age really count in marriage. For example, will you as a 25year old guy marry 30 or 32yr old lady?. Bro I didn't support that one at all. For you to propose to her, you are the one that suppose to senior her with years or both of you will be age mate. Request for her real age. If she lie, insist in seeing her baptismal card if she have any. Many marriage has crashed today because the woman reach her menopause faster than you expected. What am emphasizing on this point is that before you ask her "Will You Marry Me?" Please make sure she tell you are her real age not football age... Lolz!!!

4. How She Can Manage What You Will Give Her.

This point is very important in the sense that many rich men has been made poor because of the type of woman they marry to. I know you have money or material to give her. But my brother, you have to use this opportunity that you people are still dating to check how she can manage your resources. Or do you need girl that if she come into your life as a wife, inside of things to be getting better, it will be getting worse? I called such type of girls "End Time Girl" ..... Lolz!!!. I will like you to bear it in mind that things change, that change is inevitable. You might not be reach till you join your ancestors but it is what you saved when you are still working will serve you when you get old. So if you marry someone that don't know how to manage, how do you think you will have the one that you can save.

Think twice before Proposing to that Your lover. If you really want to marry her, culture in her the spirit of management. Teach her how to manage and make to understand that you are not getting the money you are spending from tree.

6. The Way She Think

The last both not the list you have to consider is 'The Way She Think'. I know both of you have stayed together for a long time but have you taken your time to check how she think. Did she you to contribute or suggest any idea to you? Did she reason the way you reason? Remember that now that you are single, you are the only one that think, reason and make a plans for yours. But do you still want to continue in that situation when you get married? My brother, use this opportunity that both of you are still getting to know each other to know how she think before proposing to her. If you people don't think alike, make her understand the reasons why she need to be at least helping you to find solutions for some certain things

Conclusion: The list of things to Consider before proposing to that your lover did not end here. But i just have to end here so that you will not get confused or boring. You can still do more research on this topic. But the best thing that I can tell you is to consider, think and reason before proposing to her. Don't rush into marriage!!! Finally, FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!.

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